1. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time). – As long as there aren’t children’s ears nearby!
d. Yes, on a few occasions (less than 40% of the time).
e. No. Never, not even when I am really turned on.
2. How comfortable are you with sex in bright light or daylight? Pick one.
a. Completely comfortable
b. Fairly comfortable – It’s mostly about me not liking bright light in my face.
c. Somewhat comfortable/uncomfortable, depends on the partner.
d. Completely uncomfortable. I like to do it in the dark.
3. Is this statement True or False for you? Explain.
I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.
True – surprisingly. It’s crazy to think that considering the genre I write, but I am loath to say it out loud.
4. Have you ever done a striptease for a lover (impromptu or planned)? Did you enjoy it?
I have. Not sure I love it, but I would do it to please a partner.
5. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)? Pick one.
a. I enjoy it.
b. I’m okay with it.
c. I don’t really enjoy it. – It would be more to please a partner than please myself. *Have you figured out that I lean submissive yet?*
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never given anal sex.
f. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.